Why is it rape victims get treated like it’s their fault they got rape? My ex bf’s friend got drunk and had sex with me after I told him no I can’t, and no the whole time I even fell asleep in the middle of it and I’m the one getting blame, my ex talks about it like it’s something I like thinking about or reliving like it’s something I wanted. He says I’m still fucking his friend when I’m not. My family knows and doesn’t talk about it this is the 2nd time a guy took advantage of me and nobody cared or did anything