Baby won’t take bottle!!

My DD is 9 months. She absolutely refuses to take a bottle or any kind of pacifier other than the two she has had since the hospital. She won’t even hardly eat baby food. If she’s not doing it herself she wants nothing to do with food or will throw a huge fit. When trying to get her to take a bottle (I’ve probably tried over 10 different kind, In hopes she would take at least one) she will scream and kick and cry and start gagging and seriously throw up. She won’t even begin to even suck on the bottle. As soon as she sees it the fight is on. She wants to nurse ALL night. It’s become so exhausting and overwhelming and I don’t know what else I can do!! Any advice?! She also cries so much when I put her in her own bed she pukes all over the place so I just let her sleep with me. I’m seriously at a loss.