Some backstory:

- I live at home with my mom, who is in the medical field (this is important later)

- my boyfriend also lives at home, with two older parents, one who is currently going through chemo for stage 4 cancer

Alright. So we’re both in self isolation right now due to orders from our state. We had seen each other a couple times previously when things weren’t so bad, but after the official order about a week ago, we’ve both been home. Now, my boyfriend really misses me (and I miss him too!!) and wants me to come stay the night. But I am very very hesitant. His parent’s immune system is comprised due to chemo, and I hate to be blunt here, but if she were to get COVID-19 she would almost definitely die.

Not only that, but with my mother currently working in the medical field (and talking about how she is more than likely already exposed) AND having a mild cough/cold, I could already very likely be exposed. I have explained these concerns to my boyfriend, and that I am not sure if I am comfortable coming over because I don’t want to literally expose and kill his mom. But he just pouts and asks me to come over anyway, and acts like I am doing this as some sort of punishment. I am genuinely frustrated because I don’t see how he couldn’t see the problem here. Am I in the wrong for refusing to go over?

TLDR: Boyfriend wants me to come over during social isolation when I could already be exposed AND he has a parent who has a compromised immune system. Am I in the wrong for not going?