Well I finally gave up.

After 3 weeks of hardly getting anything and now having to pump 3-4 days just get get enough for 1 feeding for my son and nothing helping I decided to quit. It's become to stressful. Luckily I got a ton the first 3 weeks so he has enough to get through a couple weeks before the nicu starts using donor milk. Everyone was surprised I made it this long, nurses didn't think I'd last a couple days due to him being just under 23 weeks but I'm happy with the 6 weeks I was able to pump for him.