Bitter baby mama?

So I just wanna know if I’m becoming a bitter baby mama or I have reason.

My son is three months old and his father only seen him three time now. The three times he seen him, he never watch him alone I was always there helping him. I was the one traveling to him, he was too lazy to meet me half way.

I never ask him for anything not a penny or force him at all to see his son. I just told him all I want is him to put himself on the birth certificate, because he wasn’t there he was in jail for beating up his GF 😒 he said no and that he ask for a DNA test ( even knowing that he talked me into getting pregnant) so I agree without a fight so I when down to the court house to apply for the free DNA testing. The lady there mark the paperwork down for child support as well. (But she told me that I can always cancel that once the paternity test is done.)

Every time he called me to check up on his son every other week, he was talking about he out with his family at dinner never asking to bring his son with him 😤 (before the virus thing broke out.)

When I asked him for the first time to watch his son April 10-11th because I have to work. he said that he have to check his calendar and that he out with his family at dinner and hung up on me ( which was the icing on the cake.) knowing that he not working that he shouldn’t have no excuses😡😡

I text him back the truth that It’s fine that I’m not gonna stress over it and that he don’t need to check his calendar anymore I will have my BF watch him. who been there since our son been born helping me watch him while I go to work but because he starting a second job I wanted my son’s father to step up and bond with him more. Today He received a letter talking about child support and that they making a date for testing once the virus situation is done. called me yelling saying that no one allowed to watch his son and that I won’t let him take our son to his house 😑 which he lives with his sick mother and his brother who smoke weed in the house, and he don’t have anything at his place no place for our son to sleep, no diapers or wipes nothing. I told him due to the virus going on I’m not traveling anywhere with our son, and that he not leaving my house and the only traveling is to work and back home and due to his anger issues that he can kiss good bye coming over any time soon.