"I just want you to be happy "

Boyfriend of 4 years has been accusing me of cheating for weeks . Absolutely not true. I've been trying my hardest to prove it to him, but he will not hear it. He has drove past my house a couple of times late at night, I see him drive by, and as freaky as that sounds , I know he is just trying to see if I am in fact seeing someone. He has trust issues. Even though he has been driving by, he does not want to see me . Tonight, I send him a text and I say " are you just not in love with me anymore, and don't want to hurt my feelings?" He responds " I don't know. I just want you to be happy."

Guys he may as well had just said " it's not you, it's me". That's how I took it anyway. What does he mean ladies?