please help!! emotions causing physical pain and idk what to do
this is really random but i am so upset right now. does anyone else ever get that feeling when you get super emotional and your chest started aching? my heart and chest hurt so bad right now. i’ve liked this guy for 2 years and i’ve been trying to talk to him about the fact that i have feelings for him and he’s not been giving me a clear answer. he is one of my closest friends but he lives an hour away so we ft ALL the time and i think i’m in love with him. i asked him if he thought of me as a friend and only a friend and his response was “i don’t know”. i’ve told him how much its hurting me but i don’t want to keep taking to him about it if he’s just going to continue to be short with me. there’s nothing i can do about it and i’m very scared to bring it up again on facetime because i’m not good with coming up with things to say on the spot but i can’t stop thinking about if he feels the same way or not and it’s causing me so much hurt. my chest aches so bad and i don’t know what to do to make it stop or make the situation better. he’s told me about not wanting to get his heart broken and i just wish i could help him understand that i would never even think about hurting him because i care about him sosos much but i don’t know how to bring up the question about how he feels about me again without being annoying. we were facetiming last night and he was gaming (bc which boy isn’t in quarantine) and he kept looking down at me and smiling or like checking on me or would just make a weird face and it hurts me because he says he doesn’t know how he feels but does this stuff and all i do is think about it and it’s the only thing on my mind and my chest aches because it makes me so emotional. does anyone have any advice about how to make this stop or get this out of my head or if u think he might have feelings based on what i’ve said? dm me please too
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