(I know wrong group but not sure what group to put it in)

Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 years now. He is on the heavy side. Right around 300lb. He's been like that since we met. I love him no matter what he looks like but I want to try and motivate him to lose weight for him not for me. Heart problems run in his family. His dad died of a heart attack and I don't want that to happen to him. Also he dose have high blood pressure. He knows he needs to lose weight he gets motvated every now and then but it don't last long. I'm starting to workout and better myself and I ask him to join me and he just says no you go ahead.

Any ideas on what I can do to help him get motivated and stick with it?

Thank you 😊