I have a question for high risk mamas. Did you put yourself on pelvic rest as soon as you got a positive test, or did you wait until your first appointment? (I have an incompetent cervix) Okay I should add that my doctor said I will need to be on pelvic rest (no sex) for my next pregnancy after my son was born at 21 weeks due to my incompetent cervix, so what I'm asking is should I stop having sex as soon as I get a positive test or is it okay to continue having sex until my Dr says to not have sex?