pregnant & desperate to move.. rant, help.
I’m pregnant & still living with my mom right now, boyfriend in my room as well, & my 30 year old (brother) 😒 who I despise & is a drug addict, smoker. Who sleeps on the couch.
We only have 2 rooms. Mine & my moms, he’s in & out of jail, never worked, recently had a restraining order on him which ended & my mom didn’t like bc he went to jail & would sleep outside. (Long story, he threw stuff at me before me being pregnant)
We have the “option” to move into my boyfriends parents house, which is also a 2 BD apartment.. with one room being his parents room & the other being his little sisters room (his old room before he moved into my room with me) me & his mom don’t have the greatest relationship & she knows no English so we can’t really communicate. His dad knows somewhat, but still I know I’ll be uncomfortable there, and we’ll be kicking the 12 year old sister out of her new room with all her junk in it.. leaving her on the couch I guess ? His house has rats & is really as small as my apartment ( & Ik his mom will be all over me.. trying to give her unsolicited advice. She’s crazy btw, ive written old posts about her saying this is her baby, my boyfriends her baby so this is her’s as well, rubbing my bf’s thighs... etc etc I can go on forever. )
just like I also am uncomfortable here in my own apartment as well.. I can’t wear shorts or anything around the 30 year old without feeling weird & he’s always strung out & off something or smoking or rolling his weed.
(If you smoke that’s fine but he does more than weed & is a clear junkie.. heroin,meth, xans etc..)
He’s never worked & is on SSI & food stamps.
ANYWAYS.
I’m on the list for housing in my area & section 8.. but wondering if there’s anything else I could do..
Please no hate, I know this isn’t the ideal situation for anyone especially me being pregnant but things happen & I’m trying to get out of this mess. Any advice to move into somewhere on our own before the fall or even winter will be helpful, or anything in general. 💘
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