My husband and I have been together since in high school. He is a year older. He went away to college about 8 hours away. While there I was in my senior year of highschool back in our home town. He texted me one night saying he had the urge to cheat on me. This was back in 2018. Just now April 16 of 2020 he told me that he went up to a girls room while in college and gave her a massage and kissed on her stomach. After that he told her that he couldn't do it because he had a conscious. He had shoulder surgery some time around there and after the incident he still was texting her asking if she could carry his books to his classes but says nothing else went on. He also recently didn't tell me he went to the strip club but then told me a few months later. I told him that if there were any more huge secrets he needed to tell me now because 6 months down the road if he has another secret i dont know if I will be able to get over it.