I’m in a long distance relationship w this boy that lives about 6 hours by plane, we’ve been dating for 8ish months so far and I really love him otherwise I wouldn’t be doing long distance and I’ve visited him once when I had the chance to fly out. We’re both 18.

So throughout the relationship we’ve had arguments, we’ve had a lot of ups and downs and it’s mainly because when we first started talking he wanted to find out every. little. thing about me, even before we started dating he used to always wanna know stuff about me and I’m not saying it’s a bad thing, He wants to make sure.. and I get that I was curious too but he just wanted to get so deep into my life and find out about my exes and everything that I’ve done and I’ve lied to him about a couple things about my ex because I wasn’t comfortable telling him and he kept manipulating me into telling him, we also were sharing accounts when things started to get serious and he used to ask me about each boy I had on my account and I didn’t wanna tell him stuff because I just don’t need to tell him it’s not his business and so then it led to him downloading my Instagram data! He downloaded my Instagram data and my Snapchat data and seen everything I’ve sent to guys and it was such an invasion of privacy, this happened 4 months into the relationship, he found out the password to my old Snapchat account (I haven’t used it in years) and he changed the email on the account so I don’t get access to it and he deleted it and I lost all my memories... he sent me a paragraph saying he’s done w me and stuff because I keep lying and I was already on the verge of breaking up because lying is one thing I know it’s bad to lie but he was so toxic since the beginning and he went and hacked my stuff and he made me the victim whenever I tried to break up

So anyways we’ve been through a lot emotionally and I still forgave him it’s now April and we decided to take a break because even my friends say he is toxic, again I know it’s not right to lie but his mindset is just really bad and they agreed, I added a person from my past that I know and he’s getting so mad at me but he has my accounts and stuff, he told me not to add them before but he said he’s changed and nothing bothers him anymore but then he said I don’t respect what bothers him? We’ve been through this problem so many times and everytime I say I’m tired of being manipulated and always wanting stuff your way he says sorry and then it happens again.

What do i do? I’m not gonna always do stuff to please him he already forced me to delete my account. I’m tired of being a puppet