So I met this guy a while ago. At the time, I didn’t want to online date anymore because it was problematic in my life at the moment. He lives in Oklahoma and I live in New York. I planned on visiting him and he said he likes me and I like him. The only thing was that he has trust issues with long distance relationships. He recently got a girlfriend and he’s making me feel really low by saying he may not be a virgin for long and other stuff like that. I hate thinking like this but I’ve been hoping they break up and I feel like a terrible person. But I feel like I’m in love with him. He said he still likes me but he thinks him and his girl are gonna last a while but if him and I meet, we might have a chance to date and he’s just sending me mixed messages. I know I should just stay friends with him but I just feel like I can’t shake off these feelings. I don’t know what to do. I just wanna be with him. Am I a terrible person for being in love with someone who’s dating someone? Is it worth waiting for him?

Also a side note: I’m not the most popular or prettiest person and no guys in my town likes me and I haven’t had a boyfriend for 3 years