22 weeks and zero sex drive
So I’m 22 almost 23 weeks pregnant and I have ZERO sex drive. Before pregnancy I always had a very high sex drive, honestly probably higher than my husbands. We’d have sex 3-6 times a week. Ever since I’ve been pregnant I’ve had zero interest in sex. Right before this pregnancy we had a miscarriage so I know that makes me a little nervous about certain positions (even though I know sex doesn’t hurt the baby). But I just want nothing to do with any of it. No penetration, the thought of giving my husband oral actual almost disgusts me even though I loved to do that for him before pregnancy. I feel terrible. I feel like my husband deserves to have sex with me whenever he feels like it or needs to but I just can’t get into it mentally and my body doesn’t physically get into it (super dry and almost impossible to get lubricated). It honestly feel different too. Sometimes I’ll try and push myself to get into it because I want him to be satisfied and it’ll start to feel ok but it just almost feels uncomfortable and just different than it used to. I thought by the second trimester it’s get better but I honestly think it’s just gotten worse. Is this normal? Will my sex drive come back? I’m 22 and he’s 26 so we’re both very young and newlyweds (September 2019)so I’m just freaking out that our sex life is doomed🥴😣
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