Does anyone feel like they're a single mother

Question

My husband works grave yards 6PM-6am 
He only spends 2 hours a day with our daughter and it's taking a toll on me mentally. Hes never really been the best father. Only changes her diapers when he really needs to, doesn't feed her, bathe her play with her. 
His way of watching her is putting her in front of the TV and him being on his phone. I cook, clean, take care of the baby and him. It feels like at times I'm just a single mother who's stuck because of the virus and me not being able to work. 
Is anyone in the same boat?

Answer

Sometimes I feel this way. My SO works from 9 pm till 6 am Monday through Friday. He comes home, showers, eats and goes to bed. I haven't worked in a month due to covid-19 so I'm home all day with my 3 month old. I cook, clean, do laundry, ect. He does some things sometimes but I do most of the work. Some days he does things without me having to ask him and other days it's like HELLO!! Talk to your SO and tell him how you feel. Maybe come to a compromise or something. I understand he works overnight but I believe he should help out more.

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Sometimes yes. I work mon-thurs 5:30-4 and have a 45 min commute. Hubby works fri-sun. So we have zero days off together and get little help the days we work. He used to also work two nights during the week and that was very difficult because I didn’t have ANY help at night. We could afford him to go part time and o my work weekends, we can actually afford him to not work at all, but he needs something to keep him busy. Now the the only works weekends it’s better but some days it’s very hard for both of us with how little we see each other.

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How many days in the week does he work? When all this settles down maybe pick up a job so he can be home and try to bond more with his daughter

Does anyone feel like they're a single mother

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