communication tips !!

hey ladies !

im usually scared to tell my bf things that bother me, because ...

•i don't wanna make him feel bad, or make him feel like hes always doing wrong

•i don't wanna cause issues or tension between us

•i dont wanna ruin his good day he may be having by things that upset or bother me

etc

but, im gonna try to communicate more, especially because he said no matter the circumstances, i need too, instead of being short with him and holding in my feelings. soooo please comment some communication tips or how to be less scared of communicating because of the reasons above. thanks so so much !!

** also we dont live together, or else i feel like i wouldn't be struggling as much with communicating and reassurance and all that so help please :)