Would you be upset too? Sex related tmi

So me and my husbands sex life has been really bad for a few years.It used to be good but he has no drive and the Dr said all his levels are fine so it's probably just psychological. And yes we have tried therapy. Anyway, last night I got in a cute bra and panty set and came out into the living room and he kinda smirked but after that didn't pay too much attention. I think he noticed I was a little hurt and he started kissing me. I started giving him a blow job and usually he will pull me up after a bit but he didn't he just ended up finishing. Which is fine I figured maybe he would help me out somehow and he didn't. He just finished , put his clothes on and that was it. He didn't touch me at all. Im so sexually frustrated already and this made it worse. I'm so sick of throwing myself at him for nothing in return or to get turned down completely. I'm really hurting and I've tried having this conversation with him 100 times and it gets me nowhere. He says he doesn't know what's up with his sex drive, he just doesn't want to. I ask him if it's me and he gets mad and says I always make things about me. I'm just stuck and frustrated. Would this upset you too? What else can I really do? I obviously am not making him do anything but I do initiate every couple of months so it's not like I'm pestering him... Help 😩