HELP: 23 And Havent Been Kissed?!

Hey girls ! Have a question 😊 so one of my really good girl friends is 22 going on 23 years old in a few months, and she has still yet to kiss a guy or go on a date in her whole life. Our friend is pretty, vibrant, well educated, and comes from a good family. She does not share much about her love life, personal life, or what she even wants in a potential partner. She claims she hasn’t found the right guy yet, but the thing is, she hasn’t even tried to look yet!

She always says she wants a man and kids one day, but when we try to get her on the dating apps or try to convince her to start exploring options, she gets defensive, backs off, or is dismissive. Everyone, even her brothers, are wondering why she is so stand offish. They have even come to us to find out if she has a dating life. Me and my friends are very careful what we say to her about dating because we don’t wanna offend her or insult her. So we tip toe around it as she watches us have bfs and go on dates. However, we just wonder if there is a deeper issue here that we aren’t aware of because she isn’t the vulnerable type. Even though we all are very open and honest with one another about of personal highs and rock bottom lows.

Thoughts??! 😊