Is this normal for moms? Or toxic?

When my mom would be mad or I would do something to upset her she would ignore me for weeks. Then when she wanted something we would just talk again not speaking of what happened. When I would hang out with her she would leave. When I tried to express my pain or any emotions she would completely disregard them or talk crap about me to others. When I would tell her something since she said “you could tell me anything “ I would hear about it from someone else. She would call me a skinny hoe. She would befriend my friends to get information about me. Take them out do things with them and leave me left out. She would take money from my bank account and leave me with nothing. She would brag to her friends how she couldn’t wait to kick me out and on my 18th birthday she did. No money or anything. I always felt like a bother to her or like an outcast. I feel she is super toxic towards me. With my little sister they are so close and I wish I had that. Even just a small piece of it. I don’t know maybe I’m dramatic like she says. She calls me mean because I’d rather stay in my room rather than cry about something she says.