My husband is not proactive in parenting

I fell in love with my husband because he was patient, kind and very optimistic with life. He helped me become a better person and I tell him I’m grateful for everything he has done and is doing for us. After we got married things started to get a little rocky with us and then after 1.5 years I found out I was pregnant. This changed a lot between us because we were in the middle of finding a place to live while my husband was in between jobs. Anyways long story short we had our beautiful baby and she sleeps with us because he insisted so, since he never tried helping me during nights. He never helps with bedtimes, bath times, feedings, play times. He has a decent job so money is not a problem and during the quarantine he hasn’t been working so he is able to spend time with us but seems like he always wants to be on social media, watch movies or leave the house even during this pandemic! Just never truly spends time with our LO. Not to mention with me but at this point I care more about my child’s relationship with her father as i didn’t have a close one with mine. I’ve tried talking to him about it but he just seems so distant. He usually just says he’s tired or that he seems stressed about something. We have been to the hospital for his heart and facial spasms due to high stress which is why i became a SAHM and he’s the only one working so we didn’t have to worry about childcare costs and needing two cars. Like I said before we’ve tried talking and he says he’ll make an effort but nothing... I’m just tired, do I just need to keep being patient WHAT DO I DO!