C section stories??

Hey guys. I’m scheduled to go in for a c section and tubal at the same tome. What should I expect? I’m really really nervous because it will be my first big surgery! Also because the babies father is in jail for abuse and I have major guilt about him not being apart of it. - I know it’s his fault for hurting my mom, and I - especially 8 months pregnant. But I am having a hard tome getting over it.

Any advice?