Baby “Father” is no help

My baby came home from the hospital Sunday, which I was over the moon for since we’ve been apart for 3 weeks but I was exhausted due to getting everything together for him. His father and I go pick him up everything was cool until we got home and I asked him can he come and watch him so I can take a shower and take a nap since I’ve been up since 3 am, he told me no because he’s “chilling” he came in the house put him on the bed then told me “ I don’t feel comfortable with him on the bed” I told him “ if you don’t feel comfortable with him on the bed then put him in his crib” he got mad and told me “if anything happens to him he gone punch me in the face” I told him to leave because he’s watching him so I can change and take a nap which I never got!!

He left for TWO HOURS!! And when he came back he went to go play the game, when it was finally night time he just got into the bed and went to sleep every three hours I had to wake up make his bottle, feed him, and change him while he just laid there. So I got tired of it and told him he needs to do something or go home, he got mad and told me to give him his son so he can feed him. We still argued so I told him to go home and I don’t want him here because he isn’t doing anything to help me. And he hasn’t called or came over to see how his son is doing since he left!!

Side note: Me and the father aren’t together I just asked him to stay over to help me, I hate him