I’m a stay at home mom of 2, ( 1y & 3y) and they are both cry babies and they just drive me crazy, me and their father are no longer together and we don’t speak, so I have to deal with this alone. My 3y old is very defiant, doesn’t listen and challenges everything I say. I find myself yelling all day long and I’m just tired, overwhelmed and have headaches. To be honest when they wake up, I count how many hours it is until it’s bed time. Sometimes I don’t even want to be around my own kids. I feel terrible but that’s the truth! I don’t know what to do