I need some advise please with my relationship - currently 21 weeks pregnant.

Hey,

Before I got pregnant my partner and I were out a lot partying etc and as time went on I got bored of all that, wanted more from life. I told him this and he agreed.

We both decided it was the right time to start planning a future, we went to the doctors got checked out and we were both relatively healthy, it took us 6 months to conceive, which is normal. Plus I’m 33 now.

Beginning on January I found out I was pregnant and we were both very shocked but happy, went away and talked about things, I felt so special and loved for the first time, I think it was because my dreams had come true.

We told both our families and they were happy.

That lasted around 8 weeks, after then my partner changed... he would go to work and have a laugh with all of the guys there then come home and be miserable, not help me in the home at all, I also work by the way! Was leaving loads of mess.. all of the programs etc we use to love he now hates, his only hobby is playing Pokemon games and messaging work friends.

I thought he maybe depressed but when I say that he gets even more annoyed with me. He isn’t intimate and says he doesn’t even have it on the brain. He use to say when he met me I was cold and now I’ve opened up and became the loving person he wanted he doesn’t seem to want it.

Our place needs a little work and he’s not interested in improving it, he doesn’t ask me about my pregnancy. I miss him, I don’t understand 🤷‍♀️

He was messaging his sister last night and I noticed he had written that I was hormonal and needy... I can’t win.

Is my relationship doomed or can it be saved? Why do I not feel the love? Is it me?

Any advise please