Do you assume that anything you tell your close friends, they will tell their SO’s?

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I personally tell my husband everything, and I assume whatever I say to my best friend or people I am closest with, that they tell their significant others.

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Na

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No, and I don’t share my friends secrets without their permission. Y’all sound like some seriously shitty friends

Na

Na • May 12, 2020
Basically if it’s not something we could comfortably talk about in front of strangers, it’s not getting told to ANYONE without permission. If your friends know that you tell your husband everything and they’re fine with that, that’s awesome! Glad it works for you. But if you’re spilling all their shit behind their backs then you’re a shitty friend

Na

Na • May 12, 2020
I mean if it’s something like they had a burger for lunch and now I want a burger because they told me about their burger, I’ll talk to my boyfriend about that. But if it’s anything to do with her family, physical or mental health, or her romantic relationship, it absolutely would not be shared with him. Unless of course they ask me to tell him for whatever reason

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Amy • May 11, 2020
Ma’am? That was cheeky. And anything not said directly to a person should not automatically be assumed safe to be shared without permission.

A

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I assume they’ll tell their partner and their mom lol.

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Yes, I definitely assume that and I’m fine with it. If there’s something I want just between my besties and I, I’ll tell them that and they won’t tell their partners.

Lu

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No, and I am surprised people do that. I would hope my friends wouldn’t tell other people my secrets just like I wouldn’t tell others theirs.

H

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My besties know if they tell me then my man is gonna know too 🤷🏻‍♀️ they’ve never had an issue with it to our knowledge

Be

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There's a reason that you can't force someone's spouse to testify against them. 🤷‍♀️ Before my husband, though, I never told "boyfriends" secrets. Now, though, my hubby knows everything I do & I assume all my friends are the same.

De

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Unless my friend makes it clear like dont tell your husband ill tell my husband, and they all know that, theyve even said it like i know if you know your husband knows and thats fine bc your husband isnt gonna tell anyone so who cares. Its not like my husband is gonna go blabbjng away alll the secrets i tell him 😂