Just need to vent
I had an hsg today. It was painful but bearable, but I’ve had lots of cramping and I just feel like being mopey tbh. My husband came home from work and asked me how it went and if my tubes were clear and I told him all about it, but in the process of telling him how the procedure went I also told him that it ended up not being covered by insurance. I totally understand him being a little shocked by that since it’s a cost we weren’t expecting to spend, but he didn’t say ANYTHING about my hsg or what I went through or the fact that my tubes are clear and it’s a huge sigh of relief. Instead he just said “oh.... so it wasn’t covered?” And then went outside to do yard work. Like didn’t acknowledge what I went through or the fact that we got some good news about my tubes.
I know he cares about me and cares about what I’m going through but honestly I feel hurt that he didn’t even say anything about my hsg when I told him that it was painful. I’m also emotional af from all these fertility meds.
Just need to vent. I want to have grace with him but I’m emotional and was not expecting that reaction from him.
Even with the hsg our cycle is costing about half what we budgeted for so I don’t get what the big deal is.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.