Am I in the wrong?
I'll try and make this as quick as possible. So yesterday was Mother's day (my husband and I have 2 children together.) He did not say happy mother's day to me or had our children say anything/make anything (they are to young to know what the day is but the one is old enough to talk.) I was upset because of that. Granted they did buy me two gifts for Mother's day about a week ago and gave it to me early. (They didn't say happy mother's day than either.) Anyways he asked what was wrong and after asking a few times I finally told him. He just said I got you two gifts and said you weren't getting anything else and I didn't know I was supposed to say it to you, you're not my mother and that mother's day is just another day and it's stupid. I told him I wasn't expecting anything else just a happy mother's day but that I am the mother of his children. He still didn't say it or have the children say it so I went in the room for a while. After a little while I got over it and came out. He calls both his mom and step mom telling them how much he appreciates them and loves them and he's thankful for them. Although I'm glad he appreciates them it hurt my feelings he couldn't say one nice thing for me or in the very least have the children say something. So I went in the bathroom to cry for a couple minutes. I come back out and to make some baby food only to him asking what's wrong again and after asking a few times I finally told him it hurt that they couldn't say something nice. He got mad at me and told me I was ungrateful and need to be happy with what I got. I told him I wasn't ungrateful, I appreciated the things I got but just wanted to be told happy mother's day. He told me I have some made up fantasy in my head on what I'm expecting and it's not realistic. Again I went to my room only to come out a few minutes later to finish the baby food. While working on the baby food he gets close in my face and says "go tell your daughter you don't like the things she got you." I was upset and went in my room and stayed there.
Well from than until now I've been mostly in my room and haven't talked to him much unless he asks a question. He said something to me about making dinner and I told him I wasn't planning on cooking, if you want the steak you can cook it or fend for yourself.
Am I wrong? I just feel like he expects me to always be the perfect house wife cooking, cleaning and taking care of the kids. He's always upset once I actually tell him what's wrong and tell me my feeling are wrong. I just can't believe he couldn't in the very least say happy Mother's day or have our children say it.
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