THEY MET TWICE AND ALREADY GETTING MARRIED !!!! UPDATES !!!!!
Hey girls ... so my best friend is a pro athlete that has a chance of getting into top 3 at the olympics.
She has met a Muslim man online, they started talking. I was happy for her because she had bad relationship in the past until i started getting worried for my girl...
he started controlling every move she does, asking for her passwords everywhere, manipulating her to do so or if she doesn’t she hides something. She left the sport without achieving her dream because he painted her a picture of having kids and a happy lovey dovey life !
They have met twice in a hotel( two days each) online dating 4 months only) and the first time they met they had sex already.
They haven’t even known each other at all... he talks with her 24 hours everyday. I’m not joking. When she goes out with me and our girls he calls her and manipulates her that she is a bad person for having fun with us so he LITERALLY stays on the phone all the time just watching her without doing anything.
First she didn’t want to convert to Islam NOW she wants to. She sees it as some rainbow life and that it’s going to be so easy !
She gave her all dreams up because she wants to leave everyone and move to Qatar with him and just give him babies. His parents don’t even know her yet... and they already ENGAGED !!!!!
Like what the heck is going on with my friend ? We are so worried... she changed like crazy and he is manipulating her a lot. He asks for her time being outside, where she at, what she is doing... tells her to write him EVERYDAY a letter of what she did. They sleep together on a line and then everywhere she goes with her parents or us he always calls and stays on the line making all of us uncomfortable and when she is tired of him and asks to go have fun with her girls he gets soooo mad ....
WHAT THE HECK?! HELP!!!!!!
UPDATE :
I sent her a writing about what Muslim women have to do in their culture and she got very mad asked me for my HONEST opinion.
I told her my honest worries... she answered to me with a whole shit message towards me judging my marriage pointing out the problems we went through with my husband that I shared with her (I really regret of telling her).
She is blind and thinks she is right. She said “Your relationship is far from perfect so how dare you tell me about mine ? It’s better to marry after two meetings than doing it like you and have arguments” she is the stupidest person I have ever met.
UPDATE #2 :
So shit got real she continued the whole crap and I literally told her everything I think about this relationship. She said “Wow now I know how you always felt” and we ended our friendship.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.