Is He Cheating???

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My fiance has not been wanting to have sex at all lately. He's a super sexual person. I feel if he isn't getting it from me it's from someone else. I asked him and he said he's just been kinda depressed lately. He's never had depression.. So I don't buy it.

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Just because he’s never been depressed before doesn’t mean something isn’t going on right now that’s making him feel sad. Has there been a job change? Are you in quarantine and stuck at home? There are a lot of factors that could go into this. So I wouldn’t automatically jump to conclusions that he’s cheating. Maybe ask him more about why he’s feeling depressed?

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He’s also never had to deal with a global pandemic before . And that could cause depression for a lot of reasons . And also just because someone has never been depressed before does not mean they are immune to it . Maybe he could work on his depression and you could work on your insecurities.

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Maybe focus more on the fact that he just told you he’s depressed & less on the fact that you think he’s cheating. These are crazy times and it’s affecting us all in ways we’ve never dealt with before. Try talking to him and figure out what you can do to be there for him...

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Wow. I feel bad for him.

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Tbh my girlfriend had a boyfriend of 2 years and lived together and he told her the same thing and turned out he was cheating. Just saying.

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He really could be depressed. Depression kills the sex drive. Just because he never had depression before it doesn't mean he can't get it now. Just be patient and talk to him about his depression. Maybe you can do little things to help him through it.

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Someone can be depressed at anytime.
There were times i didnt want sex and i wasnt cheating. 
My ex fiance got sex all the time and he still cheated

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So just because his sex drive is gone he's automatically cheating on you? there are many reasons why a man's sex drive May suddenly disappear and depression is definitely one of them his testosterone levels me of drop down as well because he's not as active as usual. There's a huge correlation between testosterone levels and depression and we all know low testosterone will cause low libido. just because he's not having sex with you doesn't mean that he's cheating and honestly life has everyone know that has completely changed. We are isolating ourselves, less social interactions more time at home less opportunity to go to a gym or be active. Anyone can get depressed because of it.

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I personally can't have sex when I'm stressed or anxious. I just can't get in the mood. A lot of people are feeling  bluesy right now. & you can develop depression anytime. Don't minimize his feelings or else he likely won't open up to you about it anymore.

Is He Cheating???

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