HELP SAVE MY FRIEND !!! 😭 WTF?!

Hey girls !

My friend is VERY DELUSIONAL... So today we ended our friendship because I told her the truth in her face (she asked me for my opinion, I only give opinions when someone asks me for it).

So she is (was) a very successful Olympian that came 4th in Rio and had all chances in Tokyo to get a medal (which is every pro athletes final goal before starting a normal life). She was doing great and going at it. She is the #1 in our country so sometimes she wears a crown 👑 of being very sure of herself that nobody will ever beat her records and she is the best.

She used to always conflict with the main coach because she was too lazy & showed bad example to the kids that train and look up to her. She said she doesn’t care about people looking up to her and it’s their choice to follow her. Ignorant. I know. 😒

The country invested A LOT of money in her... she has been a pro for 13 years of non stop training and now with coronavirus the olympics were postponed until next year. For us, pro athletes one year is a very small amount of time because every month is planned and competitions happen.

I am already married and was happily engaged before my marriage for a year and a half. My man and I love each other endlessly and we are also both pro athletes in the same sport.

When I first met her, I wasn’t with my man. I just got into the national team and I fell in love with my man right away and he asked me to be his girl after a date in one week of my arrival. She was very weird towards me after and used to spread rumors and make our relationship worse because people would talk for no reason. My man and I stayed strong and then he proposed to me after 1 year and a half of relationship and she wasn’t happy about it too..!!!! She got so freaking jealous ... and I never threw it into her face. My man and I we keep it private and we love our intimate things to ourselves. We don’t post them into social media.

When I got engaged she immediately texted some guy and started dating him online. He is a Muslim... (I have nothing against Muslims, I respect them. It’s just their culture is totally different from us) they started talking very quick online, he came and visited her and the first day of their meeting she had sex with him in a hotel. And they had sex two days in a row and he left. They started calling it “True love” and now she is fucking engaged to him and throws it into my face how she is also engaged and is going to have a wedding and all those rainbows clouds. She doesn’t even know me but it seems that she competes with me when I didn’t even wanted it. She posts private photos with him and they write each other paragraphs of how they love each other IN PUBLIC ! Everything seems that they try to show everyone their “love” it just disgusts me. She acts like a bitch. Her “man” is so freaking controlling, he calls her 24:7 LITERALLY, they sleep online together! If she hangs up he wakes up and calls her on a video to sleep together !!! When she’s with her friends he calls and sees she’s busy but stays on the line for our whole day and just stays quiet and asks her to translate and she says it’s true “love” he wants all of her passwords and she thinks it’s cute. He drew her a rainbow picture that being a Muslim wife is so simple and she doesn’t need to do anything. She is so fucking delusional...

She left the sport !!! Because he “loves her” and has supported her for her to be happy (SO DUMB... love is motivating... she was so close but he only encouraged her to leave) he is very jealous and annoying. She thinks it’s soooo cute !! He says she won’t have to wear a hijab but his sisters all do. He is a very weird guy.

Now she dreams of some delusions and I as her friend told her that it’s a huge responsibility to be a Muslim wife or to be a wife in general. But she’s like a kindergarten kid... so stupid.

So we argued yesterday because she asked me to tell her my true opinion, I told her. Then she started BLAMING ME and telling me that my relationship isn’t perfect so who tf am I to tell her my opinion ? Omg. I don’t know what to do. So we had our friendship ended because of her asking me for my opinion. She prefers her friends to tell her what she likes to hear ... but true friendship is letting someone know that they could’ve been doing a mistake ! It’s a fucking marriage ! And she literally confessed that she has always been competing with me.

What a dumb bitch...

I wasted my time on nothing.

P.S they been talking for 4 months, saw each other TWICE for two days and she is already getting MARRIED into a Muslim country leaving everything here.