I can’t have my husband 😩🤦‍♀️

Hey guys I need to vent. This past year has been rough for us because recently my husband has had a new job being a supervisor and with management it comes with more responsibilities. But with all these responsibilities it has left me on the back burner to where I try to talk to him about meeting my needs sexually and we have lacked tremendously in the bedroom and I know that is due to stress. So earlier this week I try to talk to him and he informed me about the stress and I told him that we can do quickies and he told me that I’m his wife and that I’m not someone that he wants to quickies will in that section not be a quickie type of thing but yet he let me please myself with the vibrator if my sexual needs aren’t met so I’ll talk to him again today. And he told me off my conversation if I don’t meet my needs from him then what am I going to do and I informed him that I’m not going to do anything crazy but it’s frustrating that I can’t have my husband and I’m spending more time pleasing myself and having my husband to please me. This is very frustrating I just want my husband in having sex3 to 6 times out of the month is not having my needs met. What should I do I am being patient but it’s been a year and I finally spoke up and I don’t see any results. I even tried to seduce him and he just don’t budge. He tells

Me that he is too tired and not in the mood. He did try but he wasn’t well it wasn’t as exciting. He acted like I kinda forced him. But he didn’t wanna let me down or something. I even asked if he was attracted and he said he is but he just tired and his mind just overwhelmed with stress from Work and has this mental block.

What should I do????? Comments please