I’m about to be 21, and I’ve been working for almost 6 years nonstop, I’ve had two jobs with a great history. Was at the first one for 2 years, then moved cities so i had to quit and then my last job for borderline 4 years. I quit 2 months ago because i ended up moving across the United States because my fiancé was relocated and being put on bed rest.

I’m 18 weeks 4 days pregnant with boy TWINS, and my doctor ordered bed rest before i left and found a new OB because i was on my feet too much and at my last job was being overworked in a hot environment. So she put me on bed rest so i that i wouldn’t be able to get another job.

Here’s the thing, even if i weren’t on bed test i wouldn’t be able to find a job because who the hell will hire someone who’s pregnant with twins . Nobody 🤦🏼‍♀️ so me and my fiancé decided it would be best if i just stayed on bed rest and became a stay at home mom even after the twins are born (we have a 13 month old daughter aswell)

Now i have family members (siblings) who are scolding me and people who obviously don’t have kids trying to mom shame me for not being able to work right now.

Me and my fiancé are both 20 and just bought our first home which is a 4 bed , 4 bath in west palm beach florida. He wants me to be a stay at home mom as it is. I’ve always liked working so it does really fucking suck that i can’t work.

How do i deal with the comments ?? Its so irritating.

Me and my daughter

I can’t “hold a job” yet I’ve worked at the same job for 4 years 🤦🏼‍♀️ makes no sense. This is coming from my 25 year old brother who has abused the rehab system and was jobless for years.