IUI help.

Hey ladies. I need some advice. We have been TTC for two years now. Actively with an RE for a year. We started with one then had to switch. I have low AMH and slightly high FSH. My AMH has consistently decreased since we started. (1.3, 1.19, 1.07) and as of today it is 0.94. He has okay sperm, volume is great, motility and mobility are slightly low.

We have done 6 rounds of letrozole. This cycle we are supposed to do and

IUI

. I took letrozole cycle day 5-9. Went in for sono on day 10, follicles looked great! Went back today (day 11) and they don’t look ready enough, pretty much the same. They told us both to come so he could give his sample. Welp, he didn’t give his sample because they said it wasn’t time yet. Supposed to come back tomorrow, however he won’t be able to come due to work. We live over an hour away, plus some with traffic.

I have said all along that an

IUI

was useless for us, but was open because husband wanted to. Now I am just frustrated.

Do I go back tomorrow with his sample and just try? Even though it’s OVER an hour away? Do we just cancel the

IUI

and move to

IVF

?

I just need advice from experienced people. I am in tears because this journey has been by far one of the hardest things I have ever done.

Edit to add: each sono is 250$. And the iui is 1500$.