Ok so ladies and men I need advice on how to feel about this ..... I’ve Been think on getting aesthetic body surgery work done and my husband has been on board with me doing it well we don’t have children but we both used to be super athletic when we met each other but we also got super fat together..... now I’m not my heaviest but I’m not my thinnest either ... but I’m a good size with dd boobs and I’m thick .... I don’t have a huge belly or anything but I wanted to get everything a little tighter and I have a butt I just want it rounder ... and I want my breasts lifted a little ... well my husband told me today that if I get the surgery that he’s gonna be eating my pussy more ... now the first thing that ran through my mind is offense I immediately felt ugly and well crap maybe he really is repulsive towards me 🥺 but then I thought I can understand why too because I will obviously be more sexually attractive.... but we’ve been together for 5and a half years almost 6 we’ve had our ups and downs as any marriage ... and I know what most of you may say is .... y’all to him about it and express that it hurts your feelings... but I know my husband if I let him know that hurt my feelings he’s only going to hurt them more when it comes to my weight... now see he’s definitely not where he was when we met either but I still love him and I see him the same ... I guess women just love differently ... or maybe he doesn’t love me as much as I love him .... sorry for the long ready everyone but .... idk how to take this or feel about it ... I feel uglier 😭