Feeling defeated

Anyone else out there trying for a baby and feeling ... defeated ?

We’ve been trying for a few months now ... and ... I know it’s not “genetic” or anything like that but , women in my family typically get pregnant very fast !!

And I just always assumed that would be my case as well .

I feel my husband pulling away a little, as I feel I’m guilty of treating sex as more of a “baby making mission” lately , which sort of takes all the romance out of it .

Just reaching out to know I’m not alone ...