Am I in the wrong?

My mom redid my room while I was gone for about a week since I’m graduating soon. I want to first off say I am a very honest person regardless of if it’s hurtful but in this instance I was trying to be very respectful but also not sugarcoat my opinions. I don’t really like the wall colors mainly because it makes my room look really childish as if I’m 13 years old. It doesn’t match the other two walls since they’re beige and I didn’t even want purple anything at first but she wasn’t cool with me having an all black and white room, so she decided to pick out literally every thing that’s in my room. I got no say in anything that was and now is in my room. I’m not trying to seem entitled and I deeply do appreciate every single thing my mom has done for me but she makes it extremely hard to even express that when she constantly tells not only me but everyone else in the house that she isn’t enough and that no one appreciates her, etc. here are the texts: