There are a few bars that my boyfriend goes to a lot and I honestly don’t like those bars. I hate that my boyfriend spends a lot of time at them.

My bf and I have been together for 4 years and I have been talking to him about finally moving in together. He told me today that the house right next to one of the bars (they are literally right next to each other) is up for rent.

I told him that I’m not interested in moving in that house. By the way it has 2 halves. A couple lives on one side of the house and the other half is for rent.

He’s mad because I don’t want to live there and he said that he’s going to move there with or without me.

I’m so upset because we have been together for 4 years and always talk about living together. I have found so many houses for rent that are Great and we have the whole house by ourselves, we have privacy, and a big back yard. And he says they are too far away from the bars he likes to drink at.

I’m not gonna live my life around a bar that

I hate. He is literally choosing bars over me.

What should I do ?