Mother in law?!!

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So I seen in my sos phone where his mom sent this message... I'm pregnant with my second baby this is his 5th she hasn't said anything to me nor did he tell me about this. Is she telling him to let me put our baby up for adoption? When I told her I was pregnant she said we have to get married and that he has alot kids already. Etc. Opinions?
***I would never put my baby up for adoption unless I was unfit parent***
UPDATE
*** I am not sure if he deleted or just didn't respond, secondly he doesn't see any of his kids, ex wife keeps them from him, and the other baby mom lives across the country.
*** His ex wife is married and has step kids, he has tryed I have heard and seen messages where she said as long as he's with me he cant not have nothing to do with his children. She's told him I'm a whore and she is demanding him to do a DNA test on our son. She has met me one time at church when he was getting baptized. Only reason I know is because I have heard there phone convos and text messages not just hear say. They have been to court and she got custody he is saving up to go again.

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They would both be gone that’s what it sounds like to me and I’d be confronting both of them. I’d love to know what he actually said to her tho

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Are any of the ex's married? Maybe she means sign them over to be adopted by the other man. 
Honestly, the fact that he doesn't see his kids is not good. If the other woman "keeps them from him", which is usually an excuse unless he's doing something wrong like child support evasion, he can petition the court to see his kids. The one in another state....still an excuse. I know families who do cross-state visitation. It sounds like his mom is dishing out some tough love. You're the 3rd woman he's having a baby with, meanwhile he's not stepping up as a father to the other kids. I don't blame her for calling him out in his choices.

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First of all that none of her business. And HE needs to be the one to tell her that! If he can’t then you will.

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Where are his responses? Did he delete them or just never respond? Both of those options are alarming tbh. But why would he leave his moms texts and delete his? 
Could she possibly mean for you to adopt his kids? 
There’s a lot of scenarios here. I think you just need to confront him, this is a huge deal.

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Trays some bullshit Mamma I'd leave.that family n that man for even speaking to his mom behind my back..and other are 2 big red flags when 2 baby mammas wont habe the dad in the picture ..regardless of age or anything .Period

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I’m wondering if she’s talking about his other kids. You say that he doesn’t see him, so I’m wondering if his ex is married and is asking him to sign adoption papers for her husband to be their dad. I would ask him.

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I think that it might look like maybe she wants him to adopt his other kids ? It’s really confusing . Don’t draw conclusions without speaking to him first . It might not be what you think it is

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Send her a shitty text message telling her it’s none of her business and if she thinks that then she won’t be in her new grandchild’s life 💁🏻‍♀️ cut the old miserable cow off.

Mother in law?!!

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