Are Dads just not as conscious about things as moms?

I feel like I am constantly having to tell my husband things like wash his hands especially before touching or picking up the baby. Even from when he comes from the store or outside. It’s like I have to treat him like a child about this and it bothers me so much. Or other things like don’t touch his hands because he is always putting them in his mouth. Does anyone else have these problems? I feel like it’s going to drive me away from him. Like are men just not as cleanly.