Is this wrong?

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So let me start by saying that I have a child and I’m dating a man that has a child as well. My daughter is six and his daughter is two. 
I have my daughter six days a week and Every time my man and I want to do something, I get a sitter. One time I asked if he would be willing to get a sitter when he had his child on a day that I didn’t have mine. He said no. He wants to spend as much time as he can with his daughter. And I totally get that 100%. 
We haven’t had any kid free time alone in over a month. This Friday we finally do. He asked if I would like to go to a very nice dinner. Of course I jumped at the opportunity! I was so excited about getting all dressed up and actually going to do something with him. 
Well today he said that his ex-wife has to work late and that she asked him if he would want his daughter Friday night or if she should give his daughter to her parents for the night. He chose to take his daughter. I don’t know when our next kid free time will be...
I totally understand him wanting to be with his daughter. He has her 50-50 custody with his ex. Is it wrong of me to be just a little bitsy bit upset that I don’t get any time without kids with him this week?￼￼￼￼￼￼
I don’t plan on saying anything about it to him. It’s just something that I need to realize I have to be OK with￼. Our kids always come first.

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I think it's OK to be disappointed you can't go out, but as a parent yourself you understand the kids come first. He might not feel comfortable with getting a babysitter considering his kids age. This is something you either need to come to terms with (because there are going to be plenty of times where you will have plans disrupted) or you need to take someone with no children.

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I can see why you’d be bummed out. I’m sorry 😕 but family always comes first! Don’t worry, another opportunity will come 😉

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Its ok to feel upset. 
He could have said no because he had already made plans but at the same time id have my daughter over any date

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That is sucky. You’re not wrong for being upset, especially when you’re completely understanding about it.

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It’s ok to be disappointed but I would do the same as he did honestly. I’ve never had a sitter with my daughter and if my ex can’t take her, she comes first no matter what. My boyfriend has never gotten upset about it either, he’s always understood that. 
I think you should also be happy to be with a man who takes good care of his daughter. I know it isn’t easy sometimes but he sounds like he has the right priorities to me

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Dont let anybody tell you you're wrong for being upset. It's okay. Alone time is important for a couple who have kids most of the time and anybody who does have kids understand that alone time is important for your own sanity lol. What's important is that you still understand kids come first always and you guys will get another opportunity soon

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I can understand it sbeing a sucky thing to happen for date night but be thankful you have a man who is willing to take his kid any chance he can. God forbid something ever happen to your relationship an at that point you guys have a kid atleast you know he would be a good father. 
Just take it as it comes and maybe do something for the two of you afte rshe goes to bed. A little goes a long way!

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It’s understandable to be disappointed but lucky you understand since you have a child yourself.
He probably doesn’t trust any baby sitters to watch over his child because ya know how the world is now a days.
Maybe sometime soon you’ll get some alone time with him

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You have a kid you know kids come first so how this is a problem idk. You knew his child would always come first. He doesnt see her as kuch as you see your child. His child is also a lot younger than yours is. Kids will always come first. You should know that

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