HELP: I need someone to help me write a complaint. Being harassed in my own home

So me and my bf moved into apartments 2 months ago. Two weeks ago we decided to grill, we did not know they didn’t let you grill on the porches because our last apartment owned by the same people let us. A lady downstairs yelled she was calling the front office and they emailed us.

SO

Tonight we were outside hanging lights on the balcony, relaxing and eating our dinner(fast food) and she started yelling calling us bitches and saying “if you don’t put that fire out I’m going to come put it out and beat your ass” like what the hell. Mind you she had been outside for 30 minutes yelling on the phone with someone but we are making SUCH A DISTURBANCE. She caught me off guard cause I would of had some words for her. Then she comes and bangs on our door.

I seriously feel harassed. She made a comment about black people. I shouldn’t feel unsafe and harassed in my own space. Because for one, I’m not the one to play with.

For those who cannot read WE WERE NOT GRILLING WE WERE OUTSIDE HANGING LIGHTS AND AFTER WE SAT OUTSIDE TO EAT FAST FOOD IN THE COMFORT OF OUR BALCONY.