Help any advice please ?

So before my boyfriend wouldn’t make time for me and just spend his time boxing with his friends. It would make me feel shitty and I’d always complain to him how it made me feel and then he’d try and put effort. However, I feel like I’ve been too understanding of a person and too kind letting him step over me by just ignoring all this at times. He’d spend so much time with them and I would just be in my house crying just waiting until he’d want to see me which I feel has caused him to be like hey shes so understanding, I can see my friends everyday and she won’t come at me. However he’s doing this crap again and now I’m not gonna be that understanding bitch that I was before. It’s not fair for me how he has time for everyone else but me so now I’m not going to be shut. It has to be fair and equal. Should this be the right way to handle it?