Best Self Tanner for Pale Gals?

Alright. With summer approaching, everyone is starting to look really tanned and outdoorsy. Unfortunately I was cursed with VERY VERY PALE cool toned Irish skin. I’m not looking to pull a Kardashian and change my race or anything, but a nice sun kissed look that would highlight the quarantine abs I’ve slowly been building and eliminate some of the pasty ness would be great.

I haven’t ever used a self tanner before, so something relatively user friendly and not super intense would be what I’m looking for. Again, not a crazy color change. Just enough to look like I got some sun without the damage that would come with getting some sun. Also, I would be planning to swim with it, so something sort of hardy would be a plus.

Any suggestions are great! Thank you in advance!