Husband using live web cams behind my back? Cheating?

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Found husband using live web cams behind my back. I came across this on accident and am devastated. This is much different than porn to me. Feeling very upset and hurt. How to forgive and move past this? Is this considered "cheating"?

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I'm ok with porn but this wouldn't sit with me. Interacting with porn stars is entirely different and I'd be disgusted.

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I might be wrong but you have to pay for these things right? 
Watching free porn is fine but paying and going out of your way to interact with them in a relationship and let alone a married relationship is too far. To me this would be a step closer to cheating

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Definitely have a conversation about this. He might not view it any differently than porn so maybe he never considered it might be cheating. You've got to specifically establish that boundary. I would definitely be hurt by this but I wouldn't immediately jump to never forgiving him, unless you've already talked about this and established that you view it as cheating.

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Porn is fine but web cams that you pay for or are asking someone to perform specifically for you ... not so much.

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I honestly don’t care if my fiancé watches porn I mean he’s not having sex with the gal and honestly she’s not worried about him nor is he worried bout her, he’s just trying to get off. Its not really cheating

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yeah i consider that cheating 100%

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As some one with no problem with porn this is not okay with me. My spouse knows this and wouldn’t cross that blunder. Even he finds it weird bc he is like at that point why not just have sex with your spouse 😂

Husband using live web cams behind my back? Cheating?

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