If your partner was to 'heart' photos of girls he is friends with. What would you think?

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I cannot imagine tracking or even caring about what my boyfriend is liking on social media

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Depends on what kind of photo he is “heart”ing... a graduation for example, or other big life event then that’s fine. Random selfies, etc? Not fine.

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What kind of photos? If they’re like, nude or partially nude, I’d be annoyed. 
Anything else I wouldn’t care...?

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Is this what the kids consider cheating these days? I can't even imagine noticing, let alone caring what my husband hits a 👍 on. 
Think about all the likes you hit on a daily basis. How many have hidden intentions? Probably none. It's entirely passive.

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I don’t track it.... but one time long a go my husband did like a photo of a girl on Instagram he met on  tinder ... in a bikini... while we were dating.
I didn’t like it And explained why... never did it again

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UPDATE!
For some reason I have to post this in the comments instead of under the poll.. Let me explain this for those of you thinking I'm a 'kid' - there's context here. And btw I'm 24. Just because someone is insecure, doesn't make them immature.
I was having an insecure moment last night, a female friend of my boyfriends rang him while drunk (she has her own boyfriend so I thought this was weird). She told him she had taken some drugs and didn't want him to think she was a 'goody two shoes', which to me just gave a vibe of "hey look I'm a bad girl". She's 20 and not very mature but her dad is friends with my boyfriends dad so obviously they're gonna be mates, and that's fine.
But I started to get a gut feeling that she is into my boyfriend - thankfully I know he isnt into "bad girls" and said before he wouldn't ever date someone younger than me anyway. But while having my insecure moment I had a look on her Facebook and found he had 'love hearted' her profile photo, and had recently liked about 5 of her insta photos where she basically has her boobs out - no other ones.
He reassured me last night and I do believe nothing is going on. It just made me uneasy and I wanted a bit of reassurance that I wasn't crazy for feeling uncomfortable with it all. I guess the full context would have been helpful at the start but I couldn't be arsed to type it all last night 😂
Thanks for your responses ladies x

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There’s way too many variables here. Really, all comes down to your own individual relationship. Do you trust him? If you don’t trust him enough to stalk what he is liking or “loving” on social media then I don’t know what to tell you.

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I like and ❤️ all my friends selfies so I can’t really get upset with him for it. I know I’m the one he wants so I don’t worry about it

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I don’t have face book just my husband. I have IG and Snap! I wouldn’t know but I know my husband respect our relationship!

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Call me jealous or whatever but if my husband “likes” a selfie of a pretty girl, I’m not gonna be thrilled. I would probably casually bring it up and be like “oh so you think she’s pretty, huh” 🤷🏻‍♀️ my husband also respects that I am not fully stoked on shit like that. I feel in my relationship its respect thing. I wouldn’t like another mans selfie ~ unless it was something meaningful, but if it’s a thirst trap type of situation, count me out.

If your partner was to 'heart' photos of girls he is friends with. What would you think?

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