Am i doing too much?

Things are fine w my bf and i in person, it’s great. But i just feel like we never do couple-y things. We have tons of sex and it’s great no complaining but idk i just feel like after he goes home he just lives his life and i live mine which is what i want but i wish there was some more romance and value and effort. i want to be with someone that wakes up proud to be with me. i’m gonna communicate with him tm about this but pls tell me if i’m being reasonable! thanks :)