how do i get wet?

Question

i’m 16 and i don’t think i’ve ever gotten wet. i’ve masturbated obviously but i’ve always had to use spit to get myself ‘wet’. i do have a condition and take meds but i’ve looked through the medication paper stuff and it doesn’t say anything about vaginal dryness. idk, i thought only older people would have this kind of problem, is this normal?

Answer

I'm the same exact way. I'm only 20 and it's annoying because if you try looking up what the problem could be you just find people trying to tell you its menopause😒 I've found that my body does get wet only when I'm with my boyfriend. Never by myself. For me it's never been a huge issue because I know I can still finish, but if it bothers you then it's probably best to talk to a doctor in person. And if you don't want to see one, the only recommendations I can really give is 1) lots of foreplay, and 2) lube. I know it may feel a bit uncomfortable using lube, but trust me, it's super normal and very accessible. You can pick some up from target and use a self checkout if you're nervous about what others will think. I'm sorry I couldn't give you better advice, but these are just the things I've had to learn on my own

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Nonconcordance is a thing. 
Despite what we’re told, the correlation between arousal and vagina lubrication is not as strong as we’re led to believe. You can be aroused but not “wet.” Likewise you’re vagina can be went when you’re not aroused not desiring sexual contact. 
Emily Nagoski’s book Come As You Are explains some of this. 
Use lube.

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All women are different - what’s normal for you may not be normal for someone else. If you’re worried you could see your GP / doctor. There’s a reason lube exists, though, because sometimes the body just doesn’t produce enough wetness.

how do i get wet?

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