Do you have a problem with your man watching porn?

Question

I recently caught my man jerking off to porn and I thought I was okay with it but now I’m starting to feel something else...just wanted to hear some opinions on it! 
**This is not a problem with him jerking off, I know everyone has a right to touch their own body. This is a question whether using porn to get off is a problem or not**

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Yes, yes, yes. I feel I see this question about every day here. Porn clearly hurt people’s feelings and it’s not good for a relationship. I wish all those girls stop defending and saying is normal and that you should accept. It’s OK to not wanting your man to watch, it’s OK not being comfortable with it. You have every right to have boundaries and preferences of what your companion do.

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My point of view is as long as it doesn't affect his normal life and our sex life, then I don't have a problem with it.

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We both watch it. Ive been with him since I was 14, I’m now 31, we have a toddler, a baby on the way, and we’re celebrating our 9 year wedding anniversary this August. It’s never caused an issue for us. As long as it’s not messing with your sex life, I don’t see an issue. We have different sex drives and sometimes it’s me with a higher drive and other times it’s him. I have endo and he had low T so things fluctuate. Now that I’m pregnant, I constantly want to jump his bones and he just can’t keep up. So I watch it when he’s in bed and I’m up later so as not to bug him. When I’m having endo flares, he leaves me alone (as per requested by me) and I’m assuming he’s handling it himself. You just have to be respectful of each other.

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I hit no but meant yes. It bothers me to know because the thought of my husband watching another vagina while he cums makes me hurt.  I don’t know if he does, I’m sure he has but no I’ve never caught him and if I did it would hurt my feelings.

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I'm totally fine with it.. I watch porn too, but our sex life is still very alive and it doesn't affect how we treat eachother or what we expect of each other! Sometimes I'm just genuinely tired and I'll tell him to go do it himself 🤣

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I'm OK with my man doing it, I mean I know he does it but obviously I'd rather not think about it or see him in action lol.

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I don’t love the thought of my SO doing getting off to someone that’s not me but we have a very healthy sex life. If it was interfering with that, I would have a major problem.

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This used to be a very big issue of mine, I hated the fact that he would watch it. I felt so insecure and felt as if I wasn’t enough. Back then our sex life was great so I didn’t see the need. Now a days I know he does it, it still bugs me but I kind of just have to get over it. He doesn’t do it as often as he did before....

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I think it really depends on you view porn. Personally I don’t like it because i feel it’s quite weird and disrespectful for me that my guy has to watch those kinds of stuff to please himself.

Do you have a problem with your man watching porn?

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