Am I wrong?!
I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years today because I can’t do it anymore. To be honest I shouldn’t have even been with him as long as I did because he’s a flirt/ cheater. We have been fine for awhile or I should say I was making everything be good with us. He’s been in and out of a job since I’ve met him! And I’m the type of person who always try to be there for people when they’re down and try to help if I can. Well me and him share an apartment and his name is on the lease along with mines. By him being out of a job on and off bills fall on me. I’m always the one who always have to pick the pieces up. And if he comes across money he never ask if I need help paying something..nope. The most he will do is buy me something to eat if I ask. He didn’t get a stimulus check but I did and a couple days ago he was playing dice and hit 5 hundred and something dollars, do you know his money is gone already?! He said he got me something since our anniversary is on the 19th. You know I kinda felt bad because he never has money because he’s jobless and like I said he didn’t get the stimulus check so I was ok with him having money for himself when he got the 500 dollars but my thing is he never try to help with a bill. That’s my issue. It’s like the thought that counts with me and that really bothers me because he knows how many bills I have to pay and he just going through life like it’s nothing I don’t try to bother him with anything. I had told him I was feeling overwhelmed because of bills, this pandemic( I work at a retirement home and residents are dying so often then they should and it breaks my heart, and the more residents that die the more hours that will be cut because of it. And he told me when I stress it stress him out and he has other problems as well. Which I never said he didn’t I was pointing out what was bothering me instead of acting like things are fine. You should be able to talk to your love one but not with him. Another thing that bothered me he mentioned going to Ocean city with his brothers and girlfriends in two weeks but I was hestitate because of covid. They’re going for 3 days and I know I would have to pay for me and him then he mentions how about we get a hotel up the street I’m like no that’s a waste of money knowing I have to pay for it. We have a apartment just to go up the street to an hotel. And I mentioned to him him how he thinks I should pay for everything he’s like I never ask you to pay for it I said I would! I said no you didn’t! Plus you was telling me how you’re broke now so how was you paying for anything? You forget what you say to me. I feel like he wants so much from me he wants me to please him sexually either sucking his dick everyday or every other day and having sex. I go to work and he gets to be home all the time. He asked me to get him a ps5 when it comes out 500 dollars! And I’m trying to move this year. And it’s been hectic at work and he ask me why do I feel overwhelmed and I just replied nothing and he just says ok. He doesn’t care enough in my opinion. I could be wrong for how I’m feeling but things aren’t fair. I’m always looking out for him but he gives me the bare minimum. Just got him shoes couple days ago now was looking to buy him an anniversary gift but I told him forget it and send whatever he got me back.
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