Can’t/Won’t Orgasm??

So I’m a 17-year old virgin that masturbates plenty, but I’ve yet to ever orgasm, or even come close.

I don’t have any toys, or even a detachable shower head, so all I use are my fingers.

I always start out really wet, but just a couple minutes in I’ll dry up for no apparent reason

I’ve never really felt anything by insertion, and i have a hard time finding & staying on my clit

I really want to experience an orgasm.. help?